I think we all can admit that this is one of the toughest things and yet most rewarding experiences we find ourselves in. So many challenges, as well as opportunities that build and sculpt our own characters. Numerous interesting and weird personalities.That stress you out to the point of instant aging, yet bring additional joyful laughs to your soul.
Who knew one person can deal with so many emotions and personalities at the same time, including your own, (ultimate multitasking). It's surprising that we don't completely lose our minds (though the kids might feel we were born completely nutty).
These delights and often terrors tend to become the bane of our existence. I remember a time ago, very many years, a time when my biggest concern was my appearance and all that is about me. Since entering motherhood I can't remember why that carried so much importance for me. Yes, I am aware then many supermoms can do it all. House, family, work as well as look like a supermodel. Personally, that is higher grade for me. Walking around the house to keep it tidy is already10 jobs in one. Not forgetting if I actually attempted to take time out for myself that would give my daughter ample time to completely derail the entire house. (She's just that good).
I definitely have an abundant of woes as far as this mothering process goes. This Is My Life. For that I have loads of gratitude. No one can nor will ever take that from me, regardless who you might be. Those children will always be MINE.
How blessed and fortunate we are as mothers. We know our children even before they are born. The bond we share can never be severed, though the cord gets cut.
Fathers definitely have their roles to play, but their experiences differ from mothers. It completely breaks my heart when I see mothers who are strangers to their children. Sure I understand single mommies who need to play both roles of mother and father. I am now talking at about mothers who have no excuse, that are simply not interested in being a mother. Those mommies who feel that having children prevent them from 'living their lives'. Why on earth did you fall pregnant to begin with? You must have had some idea that sexual activity might cause pregnancy...just saying!
I pray for woman who yearn for the gift a child, seems unfair to me that woman who might actually be brilliant mommies have so much difficulty conceiving. All the procedures and expenses. Then there are woman who abort babies. Or simply throw them away because they are completely irresponsible. If you felt you were not ready for that responsibility, why did you not take precautions?
Okay, so I seem to have gone on a bit of a rampage over there. I apologize for that. Let's blame that on mommy brain. A lot to say, Comes out somewhat riddled.
Getting back to previous topic...
I have started this blog for all mommies. Any who has helpful tips, advice, questions. Let us come together, stand united. Support one another. We will get through this even if it us takes until the children are fully grown and we're old and decrepit. We will survive this experience.
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